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Twenty First Edition - April 2009
The Bridge
Finishers Project

3303 S Lindsay Rd
Suite 108
Gilbert, AZ 85297
 
Ph. 480.854.4444
 
 
Contact Our Staff:

Don Parrott, President/CEO

Nelson Malwitz,                            
Chief Innovation Officer


Paul Erdmann,                    
Chief Operating Officer

Tom Adelsman,                  Director of Church Partnership Network

Paulette Fitch,
Executive Assistant
Agency/Profile Relations



Partner Meeting
Coordinator

Colleen Erdmann, Bookkeeper
 
William & Amy Stearns,                         
Training Associates
 
Director of Coaching Network

Bill Poff,
Web site development


Coming Events
 
Click on these links to find more information about each event.
  
2009 Retreats
Chicago, IL
 Apr 24-26

Dallas, TX
May 29-31

Philadelphia, PA 
 Jun 26-28

Atlanta, GA
Oct 16-18
 
Cleveland/Akron, OH
September 25-26
 
Ft. Collins, CO
October 9-10
 
Albuquerque, NM
  November 6-7
 
Phoenix, AZ
 Date TBD
 
Tyler, TX 
January 29-30, 2010


 
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The Bridge serves to keep you connected with the amazing ministry and impact of Finishers Project.  We welcome your feedback, so please call or write. 
If You Have Not Attended A Finishers Forum...

...maybe this Fall is the right time for you.  These quality weekend conferences are designed to bring together mid-life adults who are thinking about the same things regarding their future...how can I make a difference...how do I really want to invest the time and energy I have in the coming years...is there really a good fit for me in a ministry role, right here at home or even abroad?
  
Below are the dates and locations and you can register online once you decide:
  • Cleveland/Akron Ohio, September 25-26
  • Ft. Collins, Colorado, October 9-10
  • Albuquerque, New Mexico, November 6-7
  • Phoenix, Arizona, Date TBD
  • Tyler, Texas, January 29-30, 2010

New Book from Finishers Staff!
 
Transforming Together, to be released by Moody Press next month (May) is authored by our own Ele Parrott, wife of our president, Don Parrott.  The book is on spiritual mentoring, drawn from Ele's years of mentoring younger women.  It is an excellent tool for Boomer-age women with a desire to invest into younger women as scripture encourages.  You can pre-order the book by clicking on the following link: www.Amazon.com   As a bonus, the pre-order cost is less than what it will be in the bookstores next month! 
 
Six "Challenges" or "Benefits", depending on your perspective.
 
As mentioned previously, over the next few editions of The Bridge I am identifying six "challenges" Boomers face when considering ministry in a missions-related role.  The six are:  Faith, Finances, Family, Fit, Future and Fight.  The purpose of examining these benefits is to help us see that God is really carefully managing our journey, and not getting in the way of a desired goal with all these obstacles.  Last month we dealt with Faith.  This month...
 
Finances:  The second "challenge", "obstacle", or "opportunity", depending on your perspective.

In conversations, surveys, workshop questions and interaction with Boomers across the country, consistently one of the top areas of concern is finances.  What will I do for a decent income if I become involved in missions?  What about benefits?  What about retirement (whatever that is!)? Will I have to raise support?
   
As it turns out, for most of us, the first issue we dealt with, FAITH, is really the root of our concern about finances.  Can I really trust God for my financial needs.  When that "trust" is in receiving a regular salary check it seems easier.  When it is God alone, with no visible check-writer, we get nervous.

The type of missions work we are talking about is normally through a non-profit structure. In the ministry world, typically there is no product to sell in order to receive income. When a missionary arrives at their destination to touch lives for Christ, those needing salvation are not going to provide a paycheck so the missionary can witness to them. Throughout the entire missions enterprise, this is the norm for the financial bottom line. So, funds for a person's living expenses and their ministry expenses need to come from somewhere.
 
In the local church setting, we see this played out, but often do not connect it to the same working principle in the missions setting. We give our tithes and offerings to the Lord through our local church, believing that is a part of our obedience to our Lord. Those tithes and offerings are used for the expenses necessary to fulfill our church's vision for ministries, to provide the supplies needed, etc., as well as provide living expenses for those on the church staff. The church is not producing and selling goods to receive an income in order to pay for all the expenses and salaries. They are depending on the people God has placed in that congregation to give financially in order to meet those needs.
 
It is the same in the missions world. Those working in the missions enterprise are depending on the people God has brought into their lives to give financially to meet the ministry and living needs of those giving of their time to do the work. The same system we are used to in the church setting is what functions in the missions setting. In both we are giving to the Lord, but we are aware that the funds are to be used to meet the living and ministry cost needs of those doing the work.

However, one of the key differences is that the church staff doesn't have to talk to the individuals in the congregation to receive their portion of the income.  An offering is taken and the funds are divided according to the budget, salaries included.  When serving in a missions role, unless a church takes full responsibility for the project, we need to talk to individuals and churches in order to discover the funds for the ministry, in other words, raise our support. 

For a helpful article on how to raise support, go to the Finishers website - www.finishers.org   Click on the About Us tab, then Newsletters, then November 2008 and read "Dealing With The #1 Obstacle."

In these days of financial uncertainty it is tempting to trust our favorite TV news source or the counsel of financial specialists.  While they might have some quality insights on how to use money, they are not the sources of where funds come from in the first place.  We need to be clear on this distinction.  God is our source for all provision, not our employer, nor our government.

This is really an issue of trust.  We tend to 'trust' when things seem clear.  That is not really trust.  There is no risk involved.  Risk is always present with trust.  Listen to this excerpt from Brennan Manning's book, Ruthless Trust:  "On the first morning there he (John Kavanaugh) met Mother Teresa.  She asked, 'And what can I do for you?'  Kavanaugh asked her to pray for him.  'What do you want me to pray for?' she asked.  He voiced the request that he had borne thousands of miles from the US:   'Pray that I have clarity.'  She said firmly, 'No, I will not do that.'  When he asked her why she said, 'Clarity is the last thing you are clinging to and must let go of.'  When Kavanaugh commented that she always seemed to have the clarity he longed for, she laughed and said, 'I have never had clarity; what I have always had is trust.  So I will pray that you trust God.'

If God is leading us to a new ministry role and we do not have clarity regarding the finances, this issue is trust, not clarity.  The "if" at the beginning of this paragraph is important.  Moving into a ministry role can never be seen as an escape from an unpleasant work environment; it is not more spiritual than the marketplace; it is not a fall-back position because we cannot find work; it must always be God's leading.  This comes from the inner peace given by the Spirit of God as we are living righteously, meeting with him in prayer and consistently saturated in his Word, accompanied by the confirmation of other trustworthy people.

This second "obstacle or challenge", finances, is really a "benefit."  It focuses our thinking on the key element of trust.  In whom do we trust?  Dealing with this issue turns out to be a great step of faith and maturation in our journey with God.  Finances are necessary.  Finances are sometimes hard to find for ministry and precisely because of this we come face to face with the object of our trust and there is no one, nowhere more trustworthy than God!
 



Have you seen our new website yet? 
Check it out!

www.finishers.org
 
Are You wondering if Cross-Cultural Ministry is for You?
 
If so, The Journey Deepens retreat can help you process that question.  The setting and format for these unique weekends is more like a retreat setting instead of a conference setting.  Each participant is matched up with a person with cross-cultural ministry experience, in a small group with others of similar age and ministry experience.  Below are the dates and locations for upcoming retreats, and you can register online by going to www.finishers.org Events, Regional Events, then The Journey Deepens.
  • April 24-26, Elgin, IL
  • May 29-31, Dallas, TX
  • June 26-28, Philadelphia, PA
  • October 16-18, Atlanta, GA
 

Boomer Characteristics  


Likes:
working from home, anti-aging supplements, climate control
Dislikes: wrinkles, Millennial sleeping habits, Social Security insecurity
Hobbies: low-impact sports, uberparenting, wining and dining
Hangouts: farmer's markets, tailgate parties, backyards 

Boomers are blooming across lifestages. On the younger side, they're in the throes of kids, education costs, careers and commuting. At the upper end, they're empty-nesting, grandparenting and reinventing retirement.  (Taken from Iconoculture.com/microsites/Boomers)

 If you are in the younger Boomer bunch, ages 45-54, life is full, schedules hectic and finances challenging.  You share the desire to leave a significant legacy, but much has to happen in the mean time.  For the older Boomers, ages 55-63, as the children leave home you begin to see the coming years holding new opportunity.  True, the current financial instability has changed our time-lines, but we're still looking to invest ourselves in making a difference.  The purpose of Finishers Project is to provide some answers and opportunities to realize those desires.  
 
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  Don Parrott  
  CEO,The Finishers Project