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Thirty-Fifth Edition - June 2010 
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Ele Parrott 
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Colleen Erdmann
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Bill Poff
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Pat Chiles
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The Bridge is provided to keep you abreast of news pertaining to Finishers Project.  We trust that you will find this helpful and informative!
A New Look on our Home Page! 
     Check it out at www.finishers.org  We've redesigned the home page to make it more user-friendly for individuals wanting to learn about Finishers and complete a profile.  You may want to forward this newsletter to others who are looking to make an impact on God's Kingdom at this stage of life.
     If you haven't done so recently, we encourage you to take a new look at your profile and update it according to your current interests and timing.  New opportunities are developing every day!
The Journey Deepens - This Month! 
     We will be holding The Journey Deepens Retreat at the WEC headquarters, northwest of Philadelphia June 25th-27th.  To register, go to www.thejourneydeepens.com   This weekend's small group format is designed to answer your questions about cross-cultural ministry.  
     Staff from WEC and Don and Ele Parrott of the Finishers Project will be participating in this weekend event.  We are fortunate to also have the Finishers Project founder, Nelson Malwitz, and his wife Marge, joining us for the weekend. 
When It Goes From Bad To Worse
     "I was pretty sure I understood what God was asking me to do.  I was obedient.  I took the next steps...but now I'm wondering if I got it all wrong.  Instead of things going right they seem to be getting worse!"
     Sound familiar?  We think we understand what God is asking of us, but the further we go down that road the bumpier it gets.  We start to wonder..to question...to doubt...and maybe even conclude we missed it.  The clearness of the initial message gets cloudy and somehow lost in the realities of life...some of them quite difficult.
     There is a principle found in chapter 5 of Exodus that might help our perspective.  Moses heard correctly.  He knew what he was supposed to do, and he did it.  At first things went well...the Israelite leaders listened and believed.  So far so good!  With that affirmation energizing him, he was off to the next victory... presenting his request to Pharaoh and watching God grant his request. 
     Didn't happen.  In fact things got ugly rather quickly.  Pharaoh didn't just refuse; he actually decided to punish them for even asking.  It definitely went from bad to worse!  So Moses came back to God with a series of questions and doubts.  "You made a promise God...what happened?"
     You may have been there...or might be there right now.  You thought you heard correctly, you obeyed the best you knew...but the seeming promise has not been fulfilled.  What happened?
     One of the things that happened is the principle we can draw out of Exodus 5 and 6.  We can call it the principle of fulfillment and judgment.  It seems that quite often God is working out a carefully balanced plan involving both fulfillment...the promises he has made for the good of his people, and judgment...the promises he has made for those who disobey. 
     Moses, Aaron and the Israelite leaders were totally focused on the promise God had made to them.  When that was not the immediate outcome, they began to question.  But God had another side to the whole scenario.  He was also bringing judgment on those who had exploited his people.  Early on in the process, the Egyptians saw things as going well for them, and Israel saw just the opposite.  But the process was not done.  God was balancing the promise of victory for Israel and the promise of judgment for Egypt. 
     As it turns out, we don't usually know all the players in our scenarios with God.  We don't know whom he is intending to bless with his promises of victory and whom he may be judging because of their disobedience.  So when we see things only from our personal perspective, we can easily conclude that we didn't hear God correctly or that he just isn't that interested in our situation.  But there is always a larger perspective...the other side, so to speak...what God is orchestrating in the larger scheme of things for the proper fulfillment of his promises of direction for us, and what he is orchestrating to bring his judgment where necessary. 
     Take heart!  God's perspective is from a little higher vantage point than ours.  He can see the whole picture at once, so trusting his timing is probably more productive than relying on our own!
Boomers Finding Fulfillment
(The Finishers Message - from a different source)
       Studies have shown that money (beyond the amount required for basic needs) doesn't lead to personal fulfillment to the degree that feeling connected with other people might, says Michael Inzlicht, assistant professor of psychology at the University of Toronto.
     "Buying a new outfit might lead to a temporary uptick in well-being, like a child with a new toy. But research shows that (associations with) other people lead to happiness," Inzlicht says, noting the robust effect volunteerism and helping others can have on self-worth.
     He also says pursuing a calling -- such as painting or singing -- is another way that's been shown to enhance people's well-being and sense of control over their lives. But, he says, it's important the "passion" be legitimate or the experience could be disillusioning.  "It's important it comes from within you, and it's not something you think you ought to do or society tells you that you should," Inzlicht says.
     Determining the lifestyle that's best for you means getting back in touch with your values, the core of you, says Claire Chadwick, a Montreal life coach and founder of Inspiring Futures Coaching.  She suggests doing some quiet soul-searching, whether alone or with another person, to help generate ideas and energy.  "Think about: What is important to me in life? What do I want to do with decades still ahead of me? Where am I going to find meaning in life?"
[The Regina Leader-Post -  February 23, 2010]
    (We pass along this article because it deals with exactly the same themes we address in a Finishers Forum.)
Thanks for your interest in Finishers Project!
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and how we can pray for you! 
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   Don Parrott
   CEO, Finishers Project